If you want someone to trust you then getting angry when they try to open up won’t help.
It is so important that what you do reflects the way you want things to turn out, otherwise what’s the point?
You can’t just go around doing whatever you want and expecting or hoping that everything will turn out your way.
You have to ensure that your actions are in line with your desired outcome. But you also have to remember that sometimes things just won’t quite turn out the way you want them to.