There is often a lot of pressure to know what we want and then to go for it.
We’re made to feel as though we should be go, go, go, otherwise we’re seen to just be lazy or wasting time.
And often this societal pressure leads to us chasing after things we’re not even sure we really want. It’s only when you slow down and step back that you realise you’ve been moving towards a life that might be wonderful for somebody else but it’s not what you really want.