When it comes to asking for what you want, if you don’t get it, what do you do next?
Are you willing to walk away?
I think that sometimes problems arise when we aren’t willing to be firm. We say we want something, don’t get it and then just continue on as normal.
But I think that it’s okay to have boundaries. I think that it’s okay to ask for what you and not be willing to settle for less.
It’s a difficult adjustment to make when you’re used to accepting the bare minimum but it’s worth trying.