In you life you might find that there are people who will create a false sense of urgency. They’ll give you something to do and give you a deadline like ‘as soon as possible’.
So, you put your blinders on because it’s urgent and you don’t want to contribute to something being finished late.
But when you let the other person know you’re done and they appear nonchalant, that’s when you realise the urgency was fake.
Perhaps they couldn’t trust you’d do it within a suitable time without the extra pressure.
Whatever the case it’s important to not allow yourself to get swept up in it all.
As soon as possible might really mean by the end of the day, not right now.
Right now might be the right time to start exercising your creative muscles.
Write, paint, draw, photograph, film, style etc
Make time for the thing that you’re interested in whatever it may be. Use the time you have to practice and experiment, try something that will challenge you.
When you’re just starting out creatively you’ll often find yourself drawn to following what has worked in the past or simply mimicking something you’ve seen.
But the best work will always come from within. However, you have to work your creative muscle to find it.
I’m learning that a big part of that is being vulnerable.
So here’s the truth, you’re not going to always feel like doing the thing that needs to be done. And if you wait until you feel like doing it, it may never get done.
You have to find a way to commit to doing the work wholeheartedly so that you’re not reliant on how you feel in order to get it done.
Once you manage that you’ll see things start to change. You’ll also be better at creating new habits.
If you never feel like studying you might fail your exam.
If you rarely feel like doing the dishes, you’ll run out of plates and your place will be a mess.
If you hardly feel like going to work, you might end up getting fired.
Instead of focusing on how you feel about doing it, focus on why you’re doing it.
You’re studying so that you can get good grades in order to get onto a particular course for a particular career.
If your why isn’t enough to get you to do what needs to be done, then maybe you should try ding something else.