Sometimes in order to gain the change you are seeking you have to let go.
You have to allow life to happen in whatever way that is meant to be and trust that things will be alright. You have to let go of the idea that you can control the way that things will turn out. Not may many people would admit or perhaps are even aware that they’re doing too much to control the outcome.
The trick is that no matter how hard you try even if you appear to be successful in controlling things, there will always be a time when things don’t work out the way you wanted. It can be difficult when you want your life to change and maybe you’re tired of being patient so it feels easier to try and force things to go your way.
However, more often than not, the kind of change you’re seeking comes from slowing down and allowing life to flow rather than trying to make things go your way.