Asking for what you want

I think that sometimes we're afraid to ask for what we want because we're afraid that we won't get it. And so, it seems easier to stay where we are and to stick with what we have right now than to seek more. If you don't believe that you can have it then what's the … Continue reading Asking for what you want →

Value in the workplace

When you go to work, you want to feel like you're of value. Perhaps not to the point where the whole place would fall apart without you but at least like what you contribute each day matters. When a person wakes up, gets ready and goes to work, if they feel like they don't need … Continue reading Value in the workplace →

Asking the right questions

Before you ask the question, you probably have a pretty good idea of what you want the answer to be. Sometimes it goes as far as you formulating a question in order to hear a specific answer, like prasie or a compliment. And sometimes it comes from a place of vanity but other times perhaps … Continue reading Asking the right questions →

If you have to ask…

...you probably already know the answer. Sometimes when you ask questions, you're not looking for an answer, you're looking for confirmation on what you've already decided or you want someone to tell you what you want to hear. This is why you end up frustrated with how the person responds, you didn't get the answer … Continue reading If you have to ask… →

Clubhouse probably won’t become the next Instagram

We already have Instagram, it can't be replaced. It's more likely that other apps will copy it and it will die out or become less popular, like snapchat. When it comes to the growth and longevity of Clubhouse, there is a lot to be considered. Firstly, there is likely to be a period of rapid … Continue reading Clubhouse probably won’t become the next Instagram →

Minimising uncertainty

One of the triggers for anxiety is uncertainty. It's fair to say that uncertainty is a part of life. However, there are plenty of times in life where you can seek clarity to help fill in the gaps. This can be done by asking more questions. Questions like: When would you like me to complete … Continue reading Minimising uncertainty →

What would Jimi Hendrix do?

It could be Jimi Hendrix or it could be Jesus . As much as I am a champion for being yourself and searching within to find your own way, I think having someone that inspires you can be incredibly helpful. It can helpful when you're just starting out and haven't quite found your own flow … Continue reading What would Jimi Hendrix do? →

What do you want in relationships?

It's so interesting that often in different types of relationships we hold back instead from just being ourselves and allowing things to work out the way they're meant to be. You make a conscious effort to be less of yourself instead of just modelling what you want from your relationships. This choice leaves you feeling … Continue reading What do you want in relationships? →

What are you willing to sacrifice?

Sometimes you reach a point in life where you need to make a sacrifice. What are you willing to give up in order to reach your goal? And are you willing to give up the right things? Maybe you need more time to work on your book and so you decide to give up your … Continue reading What are you willing to sacrifice? →

A lack of interest

Sometimes being neutral to a situation feels like the better option. You don't want to come off too eager or enthusiastic, even if you are. And so you respond with things like 'Yeah, maybe', instead of just saying yes. That's fine for some circumstances but it can also hinder you because being neutral can also … Continue reading A lack of interest →