The expectation to be considered isn't one that I'd want from many, but when someone tries to convince you that they do consider you, if their actions don't align then it's justifiable to let them know how you feel. You don't have to 'go off!' at the person and make things dramatic. However, it is … Continue reading Considered
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This isn’t a post about cars
Imagine that you want to buy a pink car so you go to the dealership and they show you this amazing range of cars including pink ones which you express your interest in and now you're super excited. But when they later present a car to you, it's not pink. You feel a little disappointed … Continue reading This isn’t a post about cars
Molly my-way
I once new someone who's infamous line was 'But why?'. It made for a difficult relationship when you were questioned every time you said no. It would go something like can you (insert favour here)? I'd reply no, then be hit with but why, I'd say I don't want to and be hit with but … Continue reading Molly my-way
In search of purpose
I've never been a career person. But I've always thought I had a purpose, some thing I was meant to do. I have no idea what that was meant to be. I don't have any particular talents outside of daydreaming, keeping a journal and being an ideas person although they are things I've been doing … Continue reading In search of purpose
Moving past the victim mentality
When things aren’t going your way in life its easy to feel like things are out of control. Afterall if you had your way things would be going swimmingly, right. We often get caught up in thinking that life hates us, that we’ve been hard done by or that it’s only us that things are … Continue reading Moving past the victim mentality
What space taught me
I've been thinking about how when you give yourself space from people you can end up realising that actually you're quite content without that person being in your life. And then days or weeks later when the space is no longer there you find yourself holding back because in that time of space you realised … Continue reading What space taught me
A simple act of nothingness
I was recently reminded that no, I do not always need to push through and continue on as normal if I'm not feeling well. I decided to take a much needed break and just rest. I lay in bed and drifted in and out of slumber, reflected on how I was feeling within myself and … Continue reading A simple act of nothingness
It’s not jealousy
I used to think that I was jealous of people online because they had more than I did. More money, more friends, more clothes, more holidays, longer hair etc. I used to think that I wanted what they had or that I wanted a life more like theirs. But that isn't the case, the truth … Continue reading It’s not jealousy
1 Month of daily blogging
Tomorrow will be February which is strange because I feel like new years day was only a couple of days ago. Today marks the end of my first month of daily blogging and it has been a real learning experience. I'm learning each day to get the most out of my life because it gives … Continue reading 1 Month of daily blogging
The Daily Gemm 