And sometimes the best thing is to say nothing at all.
Because if someone isn’t willing to listen but is willing to argue and disagree you’re probably wasting your time and energy.
But other times the reason to say nothing is because you can’t quite find the words. You’re talking in phrases, stumbling over words and not quite making sense.
Maybe you need a moment of rest, a moment to not speak (or write) or make a grand statement about what you’ve discovered about life.
I’m in the mood to say nothing today but since I committed to saying something daily this is all I have to offer.
For some the idea of posting daily might be a strategy to make the numbers go up.
For me, posting daily isn’t a strategy it’s a personal practice. I like knowing that I can do it because 2 years ago I’d have declared it almost impossible for me.
I actually think that it’s easier to remain consistent with daily posts rather than picking 3 days a week.
But what also helps is I force myself to look at life differently as a means to have something to write about that is more than just ‘here’s what I did today’.
I’ve heard that having more content on your site can help boost your Google rankings and in most cases if you have more content you’ll also have more views.
I can post daily because I write short posts. However, if I was writing 800+ word essays daily postings wouldn’t be practical for me.
In terms of strategies I think a lot of it is down to why you blog and what you care about.
If you’re making a living from your site (or trying to) you’re much more likely to follow the rules.
I feel like anyone that blogs daily has this mental space that they go to when they’re writing.
For me I tap into my inner monologue. It’s always running and so I simply stop and pay attention to it for long enough to write a hundred words or so.
For the most part it’s easy to do, to pay attention to my thoughts and write about them.
But sometimes getting to that place isn’t so easy because we get caught in trying to be perfect or underestimating our own abilities.
The amazing thing is that, no matter how you feel you always have access to that place.
I have a habit of focusing on the bigger picture. I’m trying to see if it’s possible to come up with 365 blog posts in around a month.
The fear of failing is real. But at the same time it doesn’t really mean anything if I miss a day as the only person I’m doing this for is me.
But I’m reminding myself to take things as they come. The longest journey starts with a single step. A daily blog starts with the promise to show up and the discipline to say I’ll post daily, I won’t promise it’ll be perfect but I’m willing to show up and share something.
In the 7 years that I’ve been blogging, I’ve had multiple sites but never ran more than one at a time. I was always starting over every 18 months or so with this idea of how the new blog would be ‘so much better’ than it’s predecessor.
I found myself struggling with wanting to express every part of myself into my blog when in reality it’s perfectly okay for your blog to only show a small slice of who you are.
I’m learning that it’s okay to just write about a select few topics that interest me rather than trying to pour out and express every single bit of who I am. It’s okay to write about small businesses, personal style, my career journey and a bit of personal development.
I don’t also need to post poetry, life musings, feelings, book reviews, TV shows, podcasts, travel etc. It all becomes to much.
I created this blog as a writing space to pour out thoughts and ideas and for it to be my own personal writing practice that isn’t about working with brands, or sharing products or talking about stuff. In some ways this is more daunting because it’s just me showing up and sharing words each day but on the other hand 10+ years of keeping a journal has taught me how to express my thoughts and ideas consistently every single day.
It always surprises me how at the same time as being inconsistent and undisciplined with some things, I manage to be the opposite in other areas.
Writing, gratitude and drinking water are all daily practices that I manage to keep with a fair amount of ease. After a terrible nights sleep when I wake up feeling fatigue and my eyes are sunken, I still manage to say ‘I’m grateful for blah, blah, blah…’ at least a couple of times.
When it comes to writing, not a day goes by that I don’t write on my phone, paper or even mentally, just thinking and plan things out.
But on the flip-side there are a long list of things I’ve wanted to become daily or even just regular habits and somehow they never seem to stick.
Perhaps it’s because they require more effort, they’ll result in me having to put myself out there more or maybe I’m just not committed enough.
Whatever the case is, I’ve decided to make a conscious effort to develop new daily practices, starting with this blog.
See you tomorrow.