It turns out I've been hiding. I've been hiding from the kind of writing that challenges me. I used to think that that meant being more personal and baring my soul. But I was wrong. I think there is beauty in being able to write something that not only moves the reader but also the … Continue reading Being a vulnerable writer
Tag: vulnerability
Talking helps
On how sometimes the seemingly simple across of speaking up can transform your whole life. Talking helps when you allow yourself to be open, honest and vulnerable with the right people. This could be family, friends, your manager at work, your gp or perhaps a therapist. We so often get caught in our own stuff … Continue reading Talking helps
Giving up
Sometimes when things look difficult the first thing you want to do is give up. After all there's no way you can do it. You're not smart enough, you'll fail or someone else can do it better than you. But sometimes it's more than that. Maybe the truth is that this difficult thing will force … Continue reading Giving up
Thank you for trying
What do you say when someone totally surprises you with their words and actions? When they are generous and kind in ways that they don't need to be, when they go above and beyond what they're required to do. I almost overlooked that it would have taken this person effort and care to handle the … Continue reading Thank you for trying
You might as well say it
Have you ever wanted to say something but not known how to put it into words so you ended up saying nothing. Well I’m learning that in some cases you might as well say it because the alternative is harbouring frustration over words unspoken and that is something that never feels good. It’s not about … Continue reading You might as well say it
Presenting vulnerability
I was listening to a podcast a couple days ago and they were talking about how sometimes we don't open up to our friends when we're going through things. Maybe you've gotten some bad news recently or you're just going through a difficult time but when a friend asks how you are you just say … Continue reading Presenting vulnerability
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