Through this blog you may have read the phrase 'talking helps' at least once or twice. I'm an advocate for talking because it is something that has changed my life and I think it's something that at time is overlooked. As much as I can advocate for people to talk more, the truth is not … Continue reading When you don’t have anyone to talk to
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Self-depreciating
But make it humorous. How many times have you gone into a situation and rejected yourself or put yourself down before others had the chance? And of course you don't just say it out right, you make a joke because everyone likes to laugh. If it's at your expense, maybe they'll keep you around. It's … Continue reading Self-depreciating
Life changing habits: Let go of expectations
This used to be one of my worst habits. I'd do this thing where I'd place a lot of expectations on people that left no room for humanness and left me feeling disappointed. Once I realised that I did this I started making a conscious effort to stop. I've learnt how to catch myself in … Continue reading Life changing habits: Let go of expectations
Do you remember 4 years ago?
I recently bumped into someone that I hadn't seen in 4 years. Sure we follow each other on social media but we don't interact with each other much. So what was so amazing is that things fell right into place as though no time had passed, in the best possible way. This person even brought … Continue reading Do you remember 4 years ago?
45 Minute friendship
So there we were 2 strangers on the train sitting in first class. The train had come to a standstill as there were some issues at the train ahead. We heard a voice over the loudspeaker suggesting that depending on our destination we should either get off the current train and travel via a different … Continue reading 45 Minute friendship
Considered
The expectation to be considered isn't one that I'd want from many, but when someone tries to convince you that they do consider you, if their actions don't align then it's justifiable to let them know how you feel. You don't have to 'go off!' at the person and make things dramatic. However, it is … Continue reading Considered
Presenting vulnerability
I was listening to a podcast a couple days ago and they were talking about how sometimes we don't open up to our friends when we're going through things. Maybe you've gotten some bad news recently or you're just going through a difficult time but when a friend asks how you are you just say … Continue reading Presenting vulnerability
The Daily Gemm 