A different way

When you get into the routine of doing things a certain way, it might not even occur to you that there is a different or better way of doing things. After all you have your way and it works, it's comfortable and familiar. So, what does it take for someone who is set in their ways … Continue reading A different way →

Getting started

Sometimes I get so overwhelmed by all the things that I could be doing that I just don’t’t know where to start. And so I do nothing and then get frustrated at the time I’ve wasted. It’s not what I would call laziness because I’m often fine once I get started. Instead, it’s this feeling of ‘Where do … Continue reading Getting started →

It might not be writers block

If you want to write something but nothing good comes to mind, you might think say that you have writers block. And so perhaps you take a break from writing, convinced that you have nothing good in you to pour out at this time. But you'll be back to writing once the cloud clears and … Continue reading It might not be writers block →

Petal picking and other ways to make decisions

You know that thing you do as kid or maybe just that thing in general of picking flower petals and saying 'he loves me, he loves me not'. Or maybe flipping a coin or rolling dice and saying 'if it lands on X then i'll...'. I recently started doing that again but with other things. … Continue reading Petal picking and other ways to make decisions →

Deciding what matters

Here are is one of the most useful questions I ask myself when deciding what's important. Does this thing matter in the grand scheme of life and death? It might seem bleak or a little full on but sometimes we need something extreme to snap ourselves out of a cycle of unhelpful thinking. As someone … Continue reading Deciding what matters →