That was the prompt in a self-help book I read around 6 or 7 years ago.

It was followed by questions like:

• How would you behave?
• How would your relationships change?
• What would it allow you to do?

I think it’s a helpful set of words to get you thinking about how you might be limiting yourself.

As human beings we often fall into thinking that we have to wait until we’re confident to live our lives the way we want. But actually it’s the other way round.

You have to start living your life first and then the confidence will follow.