You cannot not communicate

I've recently been pondering on thoughts about communication that I'll share as some journalling prompts: Who do you communicate best with and why? What stops you communicating when you don't feel good? Do you find it easier to communicate over the phone, in person or through written words? There's an NLP presupposition that goes you … Continue reading You cannot not communicate →

A lack of interest

Sometimes being neutral to a situation feels like the better option. You don't want to come off too eager or enthusiastic, even if you are. And so you respond with things like 'Yeah, maybe', instead of just saying yes. That's fine for some circumstances but it can also hinder you because being neutral can also … Continue reading A lack of interest →

Not quite there yet

I recently had a conversation where I was explaining my neutral feelings towards a topic. As the words poured out I thought I was almost on a bit of a high horse. But as the conversation went on I realised that my neutral feelings were just a defense mechanism or a coping strategy. Turns out … Continue reading Not quite there yet →