There's a feeling of discomfort and discontentment that comes from having dreams, goals and aspirations but not believing in yourself enough to take action. Sometimes we put successful people on pedestals and view things from an us and them mentality. Or we completely override the fact that they worked hard and put in time and … Continue reading This might be why you’re scared to try
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Should we be attached to the outcome?
Yes, no, maybe so. There's a thing in NLP about outcome based actions, that what we do should be based on the outcome we desire. But recently I found myself thinking about how it's important to not be too attached to the way things turn out. At least not to the point where you crash … Continue reading Should we be attached to the outcome?
The waiting game
Not all games are worth playing, not unless you have to. If you could choose certainty over uncertainty, would you? Would you still choose certainty if it required courage and perhaps a little discomfort (which is totally normal when something is new). If the answer is no then that means that your fear overrides the … Continue reading The waiting game
Overcoming and explanations
If you take the time to read (or listen enough you'll find that science (or philosophy or spirituality or whatever floats your boat) can explain everything. And once you know there's a reason behind something, especially if it's difficult or challenging it might help you overcome it. It turns out that the secrets of who … Continue reading Overcoming and explanations
The beginning of the end
With 2019 on its way out, now is the perfect time to start tying up loose ends. October marks the beginning of the last quarter and I think the next few months are going to be pretty important. Now is a great time to do things you've been putting off, resolve any issues and have … Continue reading The beginning of the end
Is it helping?
A question worth asking when you're trying to overcome feeling discontent or stuck. So let's say you're feeling unsatisfied with where you're at. What are you doing about it? What are you doing to get past where you're at and more importantly is what you're doing helping? For example if you're feeling uninspired to create, … Continue reading Is it helping?
To envy and to aspire
People often complain about their life circumstances and how if only they weren't working class, their parents were born in the western world, they grew up in a better area etc. In some ways they envy the opportunities that more 'privileged' people have had in life. They may think it's not fair that others have … Continue reading To envy and to aspire
What exactly is life changing?
Life changing can be as simple as staying in bed for an extra 20 minutes or getting up on the first alarm. When you think of life changing, what comes to mind? We often get caught up in thinking for something to be life changing it has to be grand and spectacular. Travelling for 3 … Continue reading What exactly is life changing?
1000 and something days ago
Can you remember where you were at in life 3 years ago? Did you have a job? Where did you work? Were you happy? How were you spending your free time? Where did you live? What were you reading? What were your life goals? Who were your friends? Who were you dating? A lot can … Continue reading 1000 and something days ago
The storm before the calm
Often in life there are things we go through in order to reap the rewards later on. To study for a degree because you've been convinced that having one will make things easier in the future. To stay in a relationship that isn't great but you hope that it'll all be for the best once … Continue reading The storm before the calm
The Daily Gemm 