As soon as possible

In you life you might find that there are people who will create a false sense of urgency. They’ll give you something to do and give you a deadline like ‘as soon as possible’.

So, you put your blinders on because it’s urgent and you don’t want to contribute to something being finished late.

But when you let the other person know you’re done and they appear nonchalant, that’s when you realise the urgency was fake.

Perhaps they couldn’t trust you’d do it within a suitable time without the extra pressure.

Whatever the case it’s important to not allow yourself to get swept up in it all.

As soon as possible might really mean by the end of the day, not right now.

Worth putting off

How do you decide what’s worth doing now?

Putting something off because it has no urgency or immediate impact if you don’t do it now is reasonable.

Putting something off that you know you should be doing now is silly.

The more time you let slip away, the more the urgency increases. Suddenly the thing that would have been manageable over a 6 week span has to be done within a few days with no assurance that it’ll be done well.

When you find yourself in those situations you’ll realise that some things aren’t worth putting off.

Falling for a scam

Consumerism is out to get us.

Or at least that’s how it often feels anyway.

I’ve been noticing emails on my inbox from various retailers with things like last chance, don’t miss out, you haven’t completed your order (which is super creepy in my opinion).

Instead of finding it enticing, I just find it overwhelming, its too much. Often these great deals aren’t even that great and the ‘last chance’ will always come around again.

It’s like a false sense of urgency to try and get you to spend money on things you don’t even really want.

One of the biggest consumerism scams is the discounted items that are equal to or more expensive than the original price.

10% off something that costs £20 isn’t a great deal when yesterday it only cost £15.

Black Friday: A false sense of urgency

Buy it now, before it’s too late!

So yesterday was black Friday and I think for the first time ever I noticed how full on it actually is.

There are so many things to possibly buy and so many deals and discounts to give into.

As I scrolled through sites looking for potential purchases I has a sort of eureka moment which led to me deciding not to buy anything at all.

You see the thing is I didn’t actually need any of the things I was going to buy, I just wanted them. Things for the sake of things or things just for show.

It feels great to buy things and know you saved money.

But black Friday is also quite intense and I feel that a false sense of urgency is created with these short term sales.

On one hand it’s great because you can save money on things you’ve been wanting or needing for a while.

But on the other hand there are so many emails, tweets, YouTube videos, insta-stories and blog posts providing you with discount codes and links that even if you didn’t plan to buy anything you might find yourself taking (or getting taken) advantage) of the 30% discount on a luxury skincare brand.

It gets to a point where you feel good buying something you don’t even need just because it was £14 cheaper.

So, I thought it might be worth reminding you (an myself) that you’re not saving money if you had no intentions to buy it in the first place.