What do you mean, you don’t know?

I don't know was one of my most used phrases during my school days. It was an easy 3 words to use in situations where I didn't want to participate, like class. I'd sit daydreaming, ruminating or just quietly paying attention. Then all of a sudden a teacher would call on me for the answer … Continue reading What do you mean, you don’t know? →

What’s the use in feeling bad about yourself?

Short answer: there is no use. If it doesn't feel good to feel bad then why not try something else? It's easy to feel bad about yourself when things go wrong but ruminating on that feeling isn't likely to help you improve and get better at whatever you're working on. Perhaps asking yourself 'what could … Continue reading What’s the use in feeling bad about yourself? →

Back and forth

For almost a week now, I've been going back and forth on something I need to say. Should I do it over text or face to face? Should I just say nothing? Should I be honest or do I need to be brutally honest so they don't misinterpret what I say? Should I use NLP … Continue reading Back and forth →