The expectation to be considered isn't one that I'd want from many, but when someone tries to convince you that they do consider you, if their actions don't align then it's justifiable to let them know how you feel. You don't have to 'go off!' at the person and make things dramatic. However, it is … Continue reading Considered
Tag: growth
Come as you are and empowerment
I’m no Nirvana fan, I just like the quote and I also learnt that it is not a quote from the bible although the book does reference that sort of vibe. Anyway, I was thinking about how I feel about this blog and why I love writing it so much even more than my other … Continue reading Come as you are and empowerment
Molly my-way
I once new someone who's infamous line was 'But why?'. It made for a difficult relationship when you were questioned every time you said no. It would go something like can you (insert favour here)? I'd reply no, then be hit with but why, I'd say I don't want to and be hit with but … Continue reading Molly my-way
Aspects of self
Growing up in watched a lot of TV and became really interested in characters, how we define ourselves and labels. I think that is where my interest in people, the human experience and eventually social science came from. I grew up trying to figure out who I was and what labels fit me. I was … Continue reading Aspects of self
In search of purpose
I've never been a career person. But I've always thought I had a purpose, some thing I was meant to do. I have no idea what that was meant to be. I don't have any particular talents outside of daydreaming, keeping a journal and being an ideas person although they are things I've been doing … Continue reading In search of purpose
When you need to write
It's somewhere between amusing and slightly frustrating when you spend all day anticipating writing time. From the the morning when you woke up to the early evening you've managed to mentally write a good few thousand words. The expectation is when you get home and sit on the sofa, at a desk or wherever your … Continue reading When you need to write
All you need
And maybe all you need to do is take a deep breath and let go. You have the opportunity to take control of the way you want to feel even though you may not realise it. It's often only when you decide that you want something more or something different that you become aware of … Continue reading All you need
Something new
When was the last time you did something for the first time? Just kidding because that phrase makes me want to roll my eyes. But in all seriousness it's easy to fall into doing the things you've always done and putting off exploring life outside of that. So maybe if you don't feel totally fulfilled … Continue reading Something new
Growth
Some things are easy and others not so much. Even though we often find ourselves wanting to drag our feet through the challenges we face because we're certain we don't want them, the truth is that from these challenges growth occurs. And I think growth is always a good thing.