Back and forth

For almost a week now, I’ve been going back and forth on something I need to say.

Should I do it over text or face to face?

Should I just say nothing?

Should I be honest or do I need to be brutally honest so they don’t misinterpret what I say?

Should I use NLP to help me come up with how to word things?

Do I need to explain in detail or just say the overall gist of what I’m thinking?

Am I being judgmental?

How is this person going to react?

Do they even care?

As I’m sure you can imagine I’ve had a lot on my mind and am still unsure of how to go about things. It has reminded me that I spend too much time ruminating and not enough time doing because I could have gotten this all over with a few days ago.

But at least I’ve learnt my lesson for next time (hopefully).