Go, go, go until you can go no more. I reject the concept of working yourself to the bone as it's hard to reap the rewards when you're ill with fatigue and exhaustion. But the concept of working hard to reach your goals and the concept of being committed are 2 things I'm happy to … Continue reading The concepts I promote
Taking the slower route
Why make something when you can just buy it? Eggs, sugar, butter and flour are all you need to make a cake. Then maybe some vanilla essence, chocolate chips and a bit of frosting to make things a little more interesting. It takes much more time to measure out and mix those ingredients than it … Continue reading Taking the slower route
It might feel like the end of the world but…
...I promise you it's not. Challenges are a part of life. And as much as you get frustrated when things don't go to plan there's a part of you that enjoys the experience. You might think you've encountered something you can't overcome but that could be because you've never done it before not because you … Continue reading It might feel like the end of the world but…
Reasons to stop checking the stats
Focus on doing things that are helpful and try not to get distracted by the seemingly significant things that are also known as stuff. If 764 people read this post, I might come to the conclusion that I should write 'Reasons to...' posts more or that this length or writing style is the winning combo. … Continue reading Reasons to stop checking the stats
I, you and we
I'm a personal journal/diary writer. It's my trade of 10+ years and from doing that writing in first person using 'I' is something that comes naturally to me. But when writing in a space for other people to read I've started to realise that unless I'm writing for you to get to know me then … Continue reading I, you and we
1000 and something days ago
Can you remember where you were at in life 3 years ago? Did you have a job? Where did you work? Were you happy? How were you spending your free time? Where did you live? What were you reading? What were your life goals? Who were your friends? Who were you dating? A lot can … Continue reading 1000 and something days ago
It’s more than what it is
This blog is more than just a blog. It's a daily blog. It's a writing practice. It's a come as you are space where I feel free to write as I please. It's a habit. It's a commitment. It's a hobby. I've been blogging for years and but I never considered how I would feel … Continue reading It’s more than what it is
When you’re not in-flow
Having a daily writing practice means that writers block isn't an excuse I can use. There are days when writing feels a little more rigid and I suppose I feel 'blocked' but I don't feed it because whether I feel in-flow or totally out of flow I still have to write and share something. I … Continue reading When you’re not in-flow
In search of stability (don’t settle)
I think that in searching for stability you don’t give yourself enough room to explore and take risks. You align yourself in things that feel safe and reliable then convince yourself that it’s what you truly desire. The pursuit of stability is often about fear and control. As human beings one of our core needs … Continue reading In search of stability (don’t settle)
Day 183
When I started this blog 6 months ago I never really considered what I wanted it to be. I just knew that I wrote a lot and thought it would be nice to have somewhere to share it. The months have flown by and knowing that I'm committed to finding a 'gemm' each day is … Continue reading Day 183